Being There When It Matters Most: How to Connect with a Loved One Living with Alzheimer’s
- Ginger Menown
- Jun 1
- 1 min read
When a loved one is living with Alzheimer’s, communication can feel elusive—like you’re reaching for someone just beyond your grasp. But even when words fade, presence remains powerful.
Why Presence Matters More Than WordsAlzheimer’s can erode memory and language, but the need for connection doesn’t disappear. In fact, your calm, compassionate presence can provide comfort and security far beyond anything you say.
Practicing the Art of Presence
Being truly present means showing up emotionally, mentally, and physically. It means letting go of the need to “fix” and instead focusing on simply being with them. Listening, observing, and responding gently to their emotional state builds a bridge of trust and reassurance.
Tips to Deepen Connection Through Presence
Use Touch Intentionally: A warm hand on theirs, a gentle hug—these gestures often speak louder than words.
Speak Slowly and Simply: Clear, calm, and short sentences help ease anxiety.
Mirror Their Energy: If they’re quiet, be still with them. If they’re joyful, smile with them.
Let Go of Correction: Instead of correcting, join their reality. Meet them where they are.
Celebrate Small Moments: A shared glance, a familiar song, or a smile can become moments of deep connection.
Presence Is a Gift
Being present isn’t always easy—but it is always meaningful. Your patience, presence, and love create a safe space where connection is still possible, even in the midst of memory loss.
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