Finding Purpose and Meaning Beyond Memory
- Anna Victoria Granados Villarreal
- Jan 25
- 2 min read
Alzheimer's disease, a progressive neurological condition that shifts cognitive function, presents a profound challenge to our conventional understanding of life's purpose and meaning. As individuals living with the condition gradually lose their connection to the past and their ability to anchor themselves in the future, traditional notions of identity can become increasingly fluid.
However, this transition invites us to embrace a more adaptable perspective—one that recognizes that a person’s inherent worth is not stored in their memory, but in their presence.
The disruption of identity is perhaps the most difficult aspect for families to navigate. As memories fade, the person they once knew seems to change, leading to feelings of profound loss. Yet, if we look beyond cognitive recall, we find a sense of self that is rooted in human essence rather than historical facts. Identity, in this light, is not a collection of achievements, but a continuous expression of humanity that remains even when details are forgotten.
This shift in perspective fundamentally changes how we foster connections. While shared history is the usual foundation for relationships, Alzheimer’s requires us to build bridges in the present moment. By engaging through empathy, sensory experiences, and non-verbal communication, we can maintain meaningful bonds that do not depend on the ability to remember yesterday. These present-moment connections often reveal a different, deeper kind of intimacy that exists outside of traditional conversation.
Finding fulfillment in this new landscape requires moving past traditional goals and legacy-building. A person’s value is never defined by their productivity or their reach; instead, it is found in the capacity to experience joy, love, and comfort in the now. By focusing on creative self-expression and the simplicity of the current moment, we can help those living with Alzheimer’s find a renewed sense of meaning.
Remember: Purpose does not disappear with memory; it simply evolves into a more profound appreciation for the beauty of being present.
Additional Resources | Alzheimer's Association | National Institute of Aging